This is our third week looking at the cornerstones of Biblical inner peace. Two weeks ago, we saw that worship was the first cornerstone to having a inner peace. We are able through worship to give of ourselves to God and to receive from Him the transforming grace of His word. Last week, we saw that prayers offered with thanksgiving for all that God has done, returns to us with a peace that surpasses all understanding. Today, I would like to look at the third cornerstone which called fellowship. And I would like to begin our time looking at this cornerstone with a short story about my childhood.
I come from a family of four children. I was the youngest of the four. The oldest of the four children was my sister Marie. She was fourteen years older than me. One of the earliest memories I have of my sister, Marie, was her sitting at the kitchen table with a group of her friends. It was not uncommon for Marie to have friends over at our house to enjoy some time together but there was something about their gathering this time that was different.
What struck me the most about this gathering was that they all had Bibles in front of them and they were reading them. We were raised Roman Catholic. This was the mid-1960’s and one of the things Roman Catholics in the mid-1960’s did not do was read the Bible. We were never encouraged to read the Bible, and, in fact, I had a sense we were discouraged from reading the Bible. At this gathering, it appeared to me that my sister, Marie, was leading the conversation. I do not recall what they were talking about, but I knew it was from the Bible. I was probably 5 or 6 at this time. Having never seen this before I asked my mother whether what Marie and her friends were doing was allowed. My mother said it was fine. Satisfied with my mother’s assurances, I probably grew bored of watching my sister and her friends and went to find something else to do. It seems like a silly story to me now, but it was a very uncommon experience in the mid-1960’s.
We might think for a moment that what I witness that day was my sister and her friends engaged in Bible study. That was true. But the more I have thought about that moment, what I did not realize then, but now I understand is that in watching my sister and her friends at the kitchen table, I had witnessed the Bible playing out in front of me. I witnessed something more than a Bible study, what I witnessed was what the New Testament writers called, in Greek, koinonia, which is often translated into English as fellowship. Too often, in church settings, we associate the idea of fellowship to simply being the sharing of a meal after a worship service. Certainly, sharing a meal after worship is a facet of fellowship but doing just that, sharing a meal, would leave us short of what God’s Word intends for us to understand in the practice of koinonia. Why does it matter that we understand koinonia? It matters because koinonia is one of the pillars of Biblical inner peace.
The first time the word koinonia was used in the New Testament was in the Book of Acts, Chapter 2. Luke was writing about the formation of the early Christian church, in and around Jerusalem. Luke described the early church this way, “42 They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. 43 Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. 44 All the believers were together and had everything in common. 45 They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. 46 Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, 47 praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved” (Acts 2:42-47).
The early Christian church had begun, and the church began with some very unexpected developments. Let’s focus on the beginning of Luke’s description. Luke wrote, ““42 They [The church] devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer” (Acts 2:42-47). We see here that there were four things emphasized in the early church and all of them were undertaken with a sense of devotion, that is a sense of unforced priority.
First, the early church was devoted to the apostles’ teaching. The apostles were not religious scholars. The apostles were fishermen and at least one tax collector. The apostles, as well as the members of the early church, would have been thought of as common people, ordinary people, nothing special. And yet, the apostles were able to teach with authority not found among the professional teachers of the Scriptures. How were these common people transformed into uncommon teachers? There could be only one explanation. The transformation occurred by the power of the Holy Spirit. Jesus had told the apostles this would happen. In the Gospel of John, Chapter 14, Jesus told his apostles, “26 But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you” (John 14:26). And so, we see that the Holy Spirit was involved in the empowerment of the apostles to become teachers of God’s Word and to remind the apostles of what Jesus had said and taught. The people were devoted to hear more of what the apostles had to say because the more they heard the more peaceful their lives became.
Second, the early church was devoted to fellowship. We will cover what that meant in a moment.
Third, the early church was devoted to breaking the bread. The use of the term “breaking the bread” carried with it two obvious meanings. The first is sharing a meal. The second being to share in the Lord’s Supper. Here, though I believe breaking the bread is most likely related to the celebration of the Lord’s Supper. Biblical scholars believe that one of the teachings from the earliest days of the Christian church was recorded and shared by the Apostle Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians. In that letter, Paul said to the Corinthian church, “23 For I received from the Lord what I also passed on to you: The Lord Jesus, on the night he was betrayed, took bread, 24 and when he had given thanks, he broke it and said, “This is my body, which is for you; do this in remembrance of me.” 25 In the same way, after supper he took the cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood; do this, whenever you drink it, in remembrance of me.” 26 For whenever you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death until he comes” (1 Corinthians 11:23-26). This teaching is believed to have originated immediately after Jesus’ ascension into heaven and was carried forward to each new group of Christians, all the way up to and including us. Devotion to the celebration of the breaking of the bread is an act of worship of God through Jesus’ Christ. It is both solemn in the sense of the moment of Christ’s sacrifice and it is hopeful in the establishment of a new covenant. And people devoted themselves to the breaking of the bread because it too brought them peace.
Fourth, the early church was devoted to prayer. We spoke about prayer last week and saw the power there is in prayer to bring God’s peace into our lives. Prayer was fundamental to the early church because the strong connection prayer makes between believers and God. Prayer is an interesting thing to contemplate. Prayer is the only thing we will ever create that here on earth that we will be found in heaven. The Book of Revelation speaks of the twenty-four elders in heaven, “Each one had a harp and they were holding golden bowls full of incense, which are the prayers of God’s people” (Revelation 5:8b). So, when we pray those prayers do not disappear. They have left the bonds of earth and are received in heaven. And so, prayer brought peace to the people.
This leaves us with the topic of fellowship. Let’s go back to that second devotion of the early church, namely fellowship coming from the Greek word koinonia. What is koinonia? It is not entirely clear from the way Luke used the word here and it is, for me, somewhat surprisingly, Luke never uses the word koinonia again. Our primary source of understanding then comes from the Apostles Paul and John. And the principal way Paul and John used the word koinonia was to represent a deep spiritual connection between a believer and God through Jesus Christ and between believers in Jesus Christ. Let’s look at just a couple of examples.
- “9 God is faithful, who has called you into fellowship [koinonia] with his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord” (1 Corinthians 1:9). Paul was emphasizing the koinonia means a strong connection to Christ.
- “14 May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the fellowship [koinonia] of the Holy Spirit be with you all” (2 Corinthians 13:14). Paul ended his second letter to the Corinthians encouraging them to keep and enjoy their deep spiritual connection with the Holy Spirit.
- “And our fellowship [koinonia] is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ” (1 John 1:3b). John emphasized again that the deep spiritual connection with Father through the Son.
- “7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship [koinonia] with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin” (1 John 1:7). John was emphasizing that koinonia a deep spiritual relationship with God through Jesus Christ that is empowered by the presence of the Holy Spirit naturally leads to a coupling and connection with other believers.
So, koinonia has very little to do with the physical world, very little to do with casseroles and potato salad, but has everything to do with spiritual relationships with God through Jesus Christ and between believers. And Luke said the early church devoted itself to such divine and believers’ fellowship. The idea here is that believers intentionally sought out each other and because there was an excitement of finding and being in the presence of another believer. The sense of the power of the Holy Spirit and the sense of connectedness to Christ, to God, grows when believers encounter each other.
Let me illustrate that point in a couple of ways. When I worked for the federal government, I would travel frequently by air by myself. Onboard the aircraft, you would always be meeting someone new. In my experience, whenever I was seated next to a believer, the time passed quickly and was refreshing as we shared in each other’s life. There was fellowship at 30,000 feet because it was the interaction of two beings each possessing the Holy Spirit.
In ancient times of the early Christian church, the primary symbol of Christians was not the cross but the fish, the ichthys, (ick’-thy-us). According to one ancient story, when a Christian met a stranger in the road, the Christian sometimes drew one arc of the simple fish outline in the dirt. If the stranger drew the other arc, completing the image of the fish, both believers knew they were in good company. The company of believers was something that early Christians sought at every opportunity because it brought about the sense of greater empowerment of the Holy Spirit.
So, koinonia, fellowship as we might translate it, has to do with the ever-greater experience of togetherness with Christ and believers possessing the Holy Spirit. The early church devoted themselves to this drawing of themselves together bask in the sense of spiritual unity. This is what I now believe I saw back when I was a child observing my sister, Marie, and her friends surrounding the kitchen table. It was perhaps the first time I had seen believers gather in an unforced manner and basking in a sense of spiritual unity, koinonia. Researchers tell us that our earliest memories become our earliest memories because there was a strong sense of emotion associated with that recalled event. In my case, this every early childhood memory is recalled because of the strong sense of spiritual unity and a sense of peace.
Our life should be at peace. We were not designed for turmoil. Medical professionals will tell you the more chaos and turmoil you experienced as a child, the more illness prone and the shorter your life will be. We were not designed for turmoil. We were designed for peace.
The Garden of Eden was peaceful and balanced. Sin changed all that. But time and time again, God has called us out of the world of turmoil that we have created and brought us back into peace. Jesus came to bring us peace. Jesus came to love us. Jesus came to reconcile us from the turmoil of sin to the peace of God that surpasses all understanding. Jesus gave believers the Holy Spirit to enable them to do the things He called believers to do and to bind believers together. That binding together of believers to Christ and to each other is koinonia. Be devoted then to koinonia and let us be together brothers and sisters in Christ. Amen and Amen.